Hariz 1st birthday BBQ dinner

SalamAlaykum

Agak terlambat untuk post about birthday Hariz.
Niat tu dah ada, cuma baru malam ni berkesempatan untuk update about his birthday celebration.

Majlisnya bukanlah majlis besar-besaran yang boleh dibanggakan pun.
Cukup hanya sekadar berkumpul ramai-ramai dengan mana kaum keluarga yang rapat.

So, we decided to held a bbq dinner.
Just a simple one.
Ada lamb shank, ada marinated chicken, dengan 3 choices of gravy. Ada black pepper sauce, ada oriental sauce and, lemon mayo.. Ada laksa kuah lemak, ada chinese fried rice, fruits, jellies and mango drink.
Takdela gempak mana pun.

So, tak mau cerita banyak, below ni gambar yang ada.
Tak sempat nak snap banyak-banyak sebab semua sibuk.. sibuk makan.. LOL..

Masquerade party anyone? Hehehe

Anyway, haruslah gamba birthday boy masuk dulu kan.

Ragam-ragam 

Gambar paling atas tu Abang Didi. Kira 2 pupu Hariz la.

Gambar tengah tu, Aunty Fida dengan Cik Ngoh.

Gambar paling bawah, Hariz tengan minta jelly dari neni.

Papa Hariz tengah hidupkan api kat tempat bakar tu.

And yang kat bawah tu pulak adalah lamb shank yang telah di rebus siap2 dengan rempah-rempah, kemudian di bakar. Terbaik!!

Birthday boy yang "galok" malam tu.

As for me, yang ni agak gambar yang tak boleh blah.

Masing-masing muka kekenyangan.

Hariz pulak tengah "isi minyak" before sambung mengganas.

Hmm..Hmmm..

Gambar ini no komenggg - LOL

Present from Abah Nan, Ibu Ida, Abg Afiq dan Kakak Nur ain

BUM Equipment snickers.

Cantik sangat and Hariz loves it.

Alhamdulillah, jimat sikit duit ibu dengan papa.

Tak payah beli kasut dah.

Thank you to all.

Haa.. This one bukan hanya Hariz yang suka.. Ibu dengan papa pun suka.. Hehehe

This one is from Cik Ijah.

Swimming pool !! yeay!!

Thank  you Cik Ijah..

That's it.

Gambar tak banyak. Takpelah, semuanya tersimpan kemas dalam memori kita.

Hadiah pun tak banyak since jemput pun tak ramai.

Mana yang terdekat sahaja.

Well, tak harapkan pun hadiah.

Lagipun, Hariz is too young to know on how to appreciate things he get.

Cik bulat gojes tak nak biasakan Hariz dengan birthday party.

Cukuplah sekadar makan-makan family.

Betul tak?

MayAllahBless

Lamanyeeeeeee

SalamAlaykum

MasyaAllah, lamanya tak update blog ni.
Been busy with quite a number of things.
Little captain tengah tidur, so ada la masa sekejap.
Nak update blog waktu malam, busy tengok Adam dan Hawa pulak - hehehe

Anyway, it's October peeps!!
Maknanya, lagi 10 hari, my little captain is turning to ONE!!
It's a FULL MOON yaww!!
Syukur Alahamdulillah ya Allah di atas kurniaan mu yang satu ini.

What should i get for my little captain ye?
hehehehehe.

Ok, banyak benda yang nak di ceritakan, tapi bukan sekarang.
Malam nanti ok.

Stay tune...

MayAllahBless

Everything went well, Alhamdulillah.

Salam Alaykum

Masih dengan entry mengenai my little hero, Hariz
Alhamdulillah, the surgery went well.
He got admitted at 8am this morning, and discharged around 2pm since Hariz tak ada masalah apa-apa.
Syukur sangat-sangat sebab cik bulat gojes memang tak berapa gemar untuk check in lama-lama kat 'hotel' bernama hospital ni.

Al-kisah,
The day that I've been waiting have arrived.
Hariz at first nampak macam biasa je. Maybe tak tahu apa-apa lagi.
Tapi, when we reached DEMC, Hariz dah gelisah. Pusing sana, pusing sini.
Maybe dia rasa "macam pernah ku datang kat sini" - well, baby pun ada perasaan jugak. Betul tak.
So, takde apa-apa yang unusual, lepas bayar deposit kat tempat admission, the nurse teruk bawak pergi kat day care ward kat level 2.
Surgery time is expected at around 10am.
So, oklah, sebab Hariz kena puasa hari ni for 4 to 6 hours.
So, pagi tadi, Hariz had his sahur at 6am. - Terror la anak ibu dah belajar puasa. Hehehehe

Tapi agak kesian lah kat Hariz.
Yelah, kita orang dewasa, if lapar ke bolehla bertahan kan, tapi, for a 9 months old baby, dia tahu apa.
Masa lagi 30 minutes before the operation, memang Hariz dah tak keruan dah gayanya.
Dia nak tidur, tapi perut lapar susu and nasi sebab at time tu memang time susu and makan bubur.
Siap nangis-nangis and sebut "ammam.. ammam"
Well, Hariz dah tau.. "mamam" tu makan.
Agak sedih la dengar. Tapi, apakan daya, dia kena berpuasa.

The operation didn't take so much time. Dalam 30 minutes je.
And, Alhamdulillah jugak, process nak bius before operation pun senang, sebab masa tu Hariz tidur.
Kira, senang kerja lah orang kata.

Actually kan, cik bulat gojes tengah tak ada mood nak bercerita lebih lanjut.
Maybe sebab penat sebab seharian berkamoung kat hospital, dengan tengah datang bulannya lagi.
So, below ada few photos of Hariz before and after surgery.

Ibu and Hariz tengah ready nak masuk OT

Tengok muka cuak Hariz, tak mampu nak senyum dah masa ni.

Cik bulat gojes dah rupa gaya macam orang tengah tunggu nak deliver je.

Ni photos before masuk OT, so, masih ada mood nak main-main and gelak-gelak.

Yang paling tak boleh blah, sila focus baju Hariz.

Dah macam jubah dalam filem Harry Potter dah - LoL

Hariz after keluar dari OT.

Tak banyak pun gambar-gambar.

Mana yang sempat je.

So, rasanya diriku memerlukan rehat, nanti sambung lagi ye.

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Decision has been made!

Salam Alaykum,

Just a quick update as I need to prepare for DEMC today.
Untuk buang abscess yang menumpang kat montot Hariz.

Well, nothing much I could ask for more selain hoping that everything is going to be alright.

First and foremost, thank you to Ain Nazri for the tips given on the earlier post, BISUL, tp untuk Hariz, macam dah terlambat kot untuk apply.
However, kalau bisul still suka nak berkawan dengan Hariz, mungkin boleh apply cara-cara hilangkan bisul tu sebelum dah jadi teruk macam sekarang. Thank you so much.

Secondly, nak bercerita about DEMC - Bukan Damansara, tapi, Darul Ehsan Medical Centre, located in Shah Alam. It's a specialist katanya, tapi, as for me, I wouls say "specialist nate apo lagu nih nunggu berak pado spital gomen"(*1) - faham?? Cik bulat gojes kan orang Kelantan, haruslah speaking Kelantan. Kalau tak faham, sila refer pada footnote kat bawah nanti ye.

Tapi, sumpah ku kata, It's my first time visit to DEMC, and it'll be my last visit too.
The reason is simple, I just don't like service.
Mungkin cik bulat gojes tak pernah experience benda-benda macam ni, yang membuatkan my first impression towards the specialist has gone together with the wind.
I would prefer SDMC(*2) (formerly known as SJMC) more than DEMC. And I think, PPUM'(*3) service is way far better than DEMC

It's not worth the value of money you will pay to the hospital.
Just harapkan para staff DEMC je lah yang smart, kemas and friendly lah jugak.Tapi, apa guna smart, apa guna friendly kalau menunggu pun berejam hanya untuk first round check before jumpa doctor? Doctor biasa pulak tu. Kalau berjam menunggu untuk doctor pakar, itu normal.
Yes, cik bulat gojes rasa procedure DEMC sangat mengarut.
Sebab apa yang cik bulat gojes experienced dengan SJMC was totally different.
Kalau kat SJMC, masa pendaftaran, the nurse akan tanya terus apa masalah sakit kita, once dah bagitahu, the nurse will directly allocate us to any related-case specialist.
Tapi, in DEMC, lepas registration, the nurse panggil untuk timbang berat and check temperature baby, and tanya apa sakit baby, ok fine, cik bulat gojes boleh terima yang tu.
Lepas dia check, si nurse suruh kami duduk dulu, or dia kata macamni lah senang cerita - "ok, tunggu kat depan dulu, nanti kita panggil".
Menunggu la kami kat depan kaunter registration tu dengan macam-macam jenis sakit. Ada yang muda, ada baby, ada yang tua.
Mula-mula, memang mati-mati ingat nak tunggu nurse panggil untuk bagitahu specialist mana yang kita kena jumpa.

TAPI............ the clock is ticking...

We have waited for almost 4 hours, then ... TING! 2087, room 1.

Ingatkan doctor pakar dah, rupa-rupanya jumpa Pegawai perubatan dulu.

WHAT??????

Menunggu bagai nak rak, tapi jumpa pegawai perubatan?? So, mana specialist???

Adoi.. rupa-rupanya, the pegawai perubatan do the first level checking, then only he'll call the specialist untuk bagitahu apa sakit, and set for an appointment.

Dalam kepala cik bulat gojes at that time satu je - busy betul specialist kat DEMC ni ye.

Agak tak puas hati juga lah sebenarnya, sebab, cik bulat gojes rasa, kalau terus jumpa specialist, I think, he/she akan tengok sendiri and can see the picture clearer dari hanya bergantung dengan phone converation dengan pegawai perubatan tu.
Mau tak.. Masa pegawai perubatan call specialist tu, cik bulat gojes agak-agak jelah yang specialist tu tanya berapa besar abscess kat bontot Hariz sebab pegawai perubatan tu jawab "I think, it's around 2 to 2.5cm"

I think huh?? boleh nak think-think gitu?
Kan senang kalau terus jumpa specialist? Dia boleh tengok dengan mata kepala sendiri tahap bisul kat bontot Hariz and make decision on the spot.
Ni tidak. Masing-masing macam tuuuuuuuuut je.

Bila dah jumpa pegawai perubatan tu, dia bagitahu yang dia dah set an appointment for Hariz untuk buang bisul tu esok, which means hari ni lah.
My mom tanya la the pegawai tu kan, how would we know kat mana and doctor mana yang nak di jumpa?
And as usual la, dia kata "nanti our nurse will do all the preparation. You can wait first, the nurse will call you"
Ok, menunggu lagi.

Thankfully masa tu tak ada lah nak menunggu lama, dalam 15 minutes macam tu, the nurse panggil and bagitahu semua la.
So, lepas tu dia mintak kitorang semua ni pergi pulak kat bahagian Admission & discharge untuk sign itu ini, and buat payment la.

So, semalam tak ada kena buat payment apa-apa.
Hari ni lah kena bayar deposit semua tu.

Since it's a private hospital, memang cik bulat gojes dah expect lah the cost would be high, cuma tak tahu how much.
So, orang yang kat admission tu pun, explain lah everything.

Untuk deposit, cik bulat gojes kena bayar RM2,000. Ok fine, itu memang dah expect lah.
Then my mom pun tanya la berapa anggaran kos untuk surgery ni.
Owh, before that, cik bulat gojes rasa, mamat yang kat kaunter tu maybe budak baru kot sebab dia macam sure tak sure je nak explain tu kat kami - LOL
Ok, so, bila my mom tanya anggaran kos surgery BISUL tu, mamat tu pergi la check dengan senior dia agaknya, then datanglah seorang akak ni, and dia cakap

"ok, anggaran kos untuk surgery ni dalam RM3,500, depends on the situation masa surgery ni. Mungkin tak lebih dari RM3500, atau mungkin Puan kena ada tambah sikit, bergantung pada lepas surgery nanti"

WADDAFAK???

HAHAHAHAHA - Cik bulat gojes TAK EXPECT kos untuk buang BISUL is that expensive!! Kalah orang bersalin!! hahahahahah *gelak guling-guling*
Cik bulat gojes ingatkan, paling-paling mahal pun RM2000, sekali silap daa..
No wonder la nurse kat Klinik Pakar kanak-kanak tu suggest cik bulat gojes pergi gomen.
Sebab dia kata "akak bawak pegi gomen la, cas dia tak sampai RM100 pun, kalau bawak pegi private, ribu-ribu kak"

Masa tu, cik bulat gojes takdelah cakap - owh, sorry lah dik, akak memang tak suka hospital gomen ni, takut nanti dia buat cincai boncai.
Nanti di kata berlagak pulak kan.
Tapi, cik bulat gojes just buat ala-ala macam tak tahu apa-apa and setuju dengan dia. Nak jaga hati...

Hahaha..
Tapi, takpelah, my son is someone who I would die for and do anything.
Apa lah sangat RM3500 kalau nak di bandingkan dengan kesihatan dia.
Tak pelah Hariz, asalkan kamu sihat, ibu sanggup buat apa sahaja.
And alhamdulillah, masa sahur tadi, my dad bagitahu something yang buat cik bulat gojes rasa bersyukur sangat-sangat.
My dad kata - "takpelah, kos hospital Hariz, biar ayah sponsor"

HEHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHEHE..

Rezeki jangan di tolak, maut jangan di cari.
Ok bye!!

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(*1) - "specialist nate apo lagu nih nunggu berak pado spital gomen" - Specialist apa kalau menunggu teruk dari hospital kerajaan.
(*2) - SDMC - Sime Darby Medical Centre, located in Subang Jaya. Formerly known as SJMC - Subang Jaya Medical Centre
(*3) - PPUM - Pusat Perubatan Universiti Malaya - A government hospital.

B.I.S.U.L

Salam Alaykum

Today is the last day of July, and before the new moon is showing up, let's start the end of July with a not-juicy-story again.

B.I.S.U.L

I've never been affected with bisul throughout my life (so far), but unfortunately, it's affecting my son!

OH NO!!!

Hariz is currently suffering the abscess. Exactly next to his tempat pengeluaran najis.
And that is the reason why he's having bloating.
Setiap kali Hariz rasa nak kentut or berak, he'll keep it on hold.
Semuanya kerana bisul tu. It's painful.
Even Dr.Chong (the child specialist) pun geleng kepala and said "wooo.. this is painful"

Kesian anak teruna ibu.

What else I can do? I don't have any experience in handling abscess, but quite thankful as inche hubby pernah kena bisul, so, sikit banyak at least dia tahu.

Hariz has to consume the ubat demam lagi eventhough he's not in fever anymore, but as what been said by the specialist, the medicine will act as a pain killer, and of course, the antibiotic, and cream untuk sapu.

Praying hard the bisul will mengecut by this wednesday, or else, Hariz has to go a minor surgery on the bisul.

Tak boleh bayang. Macam tak sanggup je rasa. Dah la bisul tu kat dubur dia, lagi nak toreh bagai?

So now, I'm actively looking for any other solutions than surgery.
Whether is it going to be dangerous if I just keep on sapu je cream and let it naturally cure?
I don't think I'm able to handle the after surgical process as the doctor did mentioned that when they cut the affected area, they only letak plaster kat tempat luka tu (sort of).
I mean, come on. My son is a 9 months old baby, how on earth he is going to handle it?
Kalau kita orang dewasa ni, perhaps boleh nak control pengeluaran air besar, tapi, for a baby macamana?

Damn!

It's not an easy decision that me and inche hubby has to make.
Lot's of things need to put on consideration.

Even the doctor himself told me, kesian kat baby kalau nak buat surgical untuk buang bisul tu. Furthermore, it's not easy to handle it, especially baby as we need to put the hygenic as a top priority.

*****

Seriously rasa nak collapse sekarang jugak.
This wednesday will be an appointment to Hariz with Dr.Chong.
Kalau bisul macam still membengkak lagi, cik bulat gojes nak consult dengan Dr.Chong, kalau tak melibatkan surgical, tak boleh ke?
Hariz is too small to handle this.
And me myself not capable enough to handle the after surgical treatment.
I'm not capable to see Hariz suffering the pain.
I just do not have the strength.

As for now, I just keep on giving him medicines, and of course, sapu the cream sekerap yang mungkin.
Tukar pampers pun sekerap yang mungkin.
And, additional effort, cik bulat gojes rendamkan bontot Hariz dalam air garam.
Well, air garam kan boleh hapuskan bacteria.
Bisul ni pun asalnya dari bacteria la.
Harap-harap menjadi la.
Apa-apa pun, yakin pada Dia,
Allah Azzawajalla

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I love you like a love song baby

Salam Alaykum!!
In 15 more minutes, my dear son is shifting his age from 8 months to 9 months of age!
How time flies really fast.

Happy 9 months old dearie Hariz.
Keep on growing baby. Grow healthy and smart.
Ibu and papa will and definitely LOVE you more than you do.

The greatest gift, my precious and my pride and joy, my everything.



Half of me is belongs to my Inche suami, and another half is belongs to my baby boy, Hariz.

Love you till Jannah.

Yakin pada DIA,

Allah Azzawajalla.

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grow and keep on growing

My 8 months of age son, Haris Hazmi.

I love you baby boy.

Happy 6 months old sayang

My life and my soul.

The one who is responsible in changing my entire life and routine.

 

The one who has changed the title of a wife becoming a mother, and a husband becoming a father.

 

The one who has changed the title of a mother becoming a grandmother, and a father becoming a grandfather.

 

The one who has changed the title of a grandmother becoming a great grandmother.

 

Alhamdulillah, the existence of you into the family has brought us the greatest happiness that ain't an amount of money can buy. 

 

 

Hariz, you are the greatest gift that was given by Allah. No other words that could represents my feeling towards the gift. 

 

Nothing that I could ask for more. Ibu and papa would always pray for your happiness.

 

Please growing fast baby. Ibu just can't wait to hold your hand, sending you to school =)

 

Happy 6 months old baby.

 

Ibu and papa really love you so much.

 

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